Question Your Own Interpretation: Birth and Rebirth, Dreams, 1989 and 2015

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What is your personal deep commitment to dream work?  What is your intention?

There is a definite relationship between the time I spend working with a dream and the dreams that come on subsequent nights. So it is exciting when two nights after I write the blog, I dream two dreams of life and rebirth. I am so glad I have the Broken Church written in my journal 26 years before to remind me of my inner transformations. (See I, the Woman, Planted the Tree: A Journey through Dreams to the Feminine, p. 73.)

January 21, 2015 The Earth as my Inner Church

In my dream, I enter an unknown, warm and friendly place. It seems like a church, but it has no walls. A young, dark-haired priest rushes by smiling at me and says something like, “I am not a very rule bound or rigid priest.” I smile back. “I am not a very often coming to church person, so we are even.”

Mass begins. At the back, a lady is chatting away, very loudly. I mutter to myself and move around to the back. The church is a large circle and at the bottom right hand side there is plenty of room. Several small boys, age two or three, are happily playing, chattering. One mom comes. There is a lot of playing and chattering. The Mass finishes and everyone goes outside. The scene changes to a kind of picnic and now seems like Holy Rosary Church grounds where I grew up.

I awaken feeling satisfied. As I remember the dream, I celebrate! From intense fear of ridicule and despair in 1989 to earth space in 2015 with very little imposed constraint on my inner spiritual life. Much has changed. I have been ruminating, digesting, for many years.

January 23, 2015.

 In my dream, I am surprised to see several of my Black Angus cows coming up for water, with new born calves at foot. There are too many to count as they are milling about. I am elated! Early calves! All born with no help. They are several months early but all look healthy. I turn and head to the house to find Jason. He will be able to count them! I don’t actually see my house in the dream.When I get to the “house”, there are many people and several newborn babies. I go into what seems like a bedroom. My sister-in-law, Shirley is there with a little one on her knee. She motions “shh” with her finger to her lips. This small one, perhaps 10 months, has a cap on over her curly hair. She appears to have Downs Syndrome. The dream people seem like my family yet not.

The scene changes to a run down garage at South Cooking Lake near the farm. A young man I neither see nor remember opens up a very very old garage door, the tin push up type. I leave via the open garage door.

Next, I am back looking for the calves. I am very excited by the birth of so many calves on the same day, all healthy, all early!

There is more in the dream. However, I have made the rookie mistake of not getting up to write it all down as soon as I awakened!

Gestalt

Those dreams from 1989 were just the beginning. Carl Jung was clear. Dreams are not like magic beans. Dreams are the inner work of individuation. Change requires courage, effort and dedication.  I am completely clear. Jung was right. Commitment. Intentionality. Deep work.

The Church without walls feels beautiful, warm and lovely. It brings to mind my gardens on the farm which I see as my Earth Church. There are no limits, no walls in my Earth church. The children are truly much happier, chatty, laughing aspects of my self; they have all been birthed within since the dark days of depression I lived with until the process of healing began in earnest in 1988. Dreams are my greatest gift.

Images and figures in dreams are aspects of self. My inner priest has changed deeply as well. I am reminded of my experiences in New York studying with Father John Rich and Sister Sylvia in a Dream Intensive. (See Authoring Self: A Journey through Dreams to the Feminine, Chapter One). During an intense inner experience, I was choking on a fish bone stuck side-wise in my throat. It came to me, it was the priest from St. Michael’s Parish in 1983. When Sister Sylvia asked, in meditation, what I wanted to tell the priest, A deep guttural voice come from within me, “Feed him arsenic.” Ha! Pent up rage! Finally, anger allowed to flare … The gift of a gifted spiritual director who teaches active imagination!

That spring of 1983 I had gone to receive the sacrament of Penance after several evenings of an Easter preparation series. My husband, Bill, had decided that fall that he would become a Catholic.  The final stage of preparation was during Holy Week. Without going into all the details, I had confessed to the sin of despair. If you have never heard of this before, you are not alone. However, I was an inveterate reader from early childhood teaching myself to read long before I went to school. Not actually understanding a lot of the stuff I read! However, studying catechism as a child, I also read the Examination of Conscience as preparation for the sacrament of Penance. I seriously misinterpreted the notion of despair. By definition, as an adult reader, I now know that despair in the Catholic teaching lexicon refers to complete abandonment of the hope of ever saving one’s soul. It is a positive act of will in which one gives up any hope of eternal life. It absolutely DOES NOT refer to anxiety and depression! I had labored under very inappropriate delusions about the “sin of despair” throughout those depression years. I remember reading that children are great observers and crappy interpreters. I am thankful for the dream and the resultant search for a clear definition of despair.

In any case, when I confessed to ‘despair’, rather than tell me what despair really meant, the priest rather dismissively said, “Get yourself to a good doctor.” I left in tears. I was 43 years old. Had been going to doctors since I was 6. What good had they done for me? Since those days, I have questioned and changed much childhood doctrine.

In working with this dream of my Earth Church and Joyful Inner Priest, I come appreciate Jung much more. The process of individuation is indeed a lifetime.  Transformation in psychological processes is the work of a lifetime as one moves from child, to youth to young adult, midlife and crone stages. Each stage may be marked with ritual. In my view, our culture encourages resistance to the stages of life preferring instead to imagine never growing up as in the Pan of Peter Pan. Everlasting childhood. Everlastingly free of wrinkles! In these many years of dreams, I have moved through the seasons of birth, rebirth, heat of summer, autumn losses and winter deaths. In dream work, the symbolism of the birth of a baby has appeared often as I sought to undertake new projects and processes. In these two dreams both human and animal babies appear to mark a shift in my ongoing quest for wholeness.

I choose to work with only a few symbols in this pair of dreams.

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Cow

Throughout the many  years I have written dreams, cattle images have appeared often. Recently, a young friend showed me The Book of Symbols: Reflections on archetypal images. (See resources for the full description). I do several strategies with my dream images long long BEFORE consulting this or any other of several good reference books. I read easily 500 books on dreams in the last 31 years. Sometimes, reading books like James Michener, The Source, Riane Eisler, The Chalice and the Blade and archaeological studies from Mirija Gimbutas lead to wonderfully beautiful and deep explanations of dream symbolism.

Cows have always been a part of my life. Since Bill died, I have assumed full managerial responsibility for the herd. Records show 47 cow/calf pairs on the farm that September 29, 2000. My son, Jason is my main consultant/assistant. He is definitely the muscle of the operation plus he has an amazing ability to remember each and every cow and its calf by name. So, Jason appears in the dream to assist me in figuring out the situation. Jason is a close aspect of my being. He represents a part of myself I know well.

Hathor,  cow Goddess and the milk of Goddess as well as newly born calves

The Book of Symbols provides that the cow is the ultimate provider of riches.Her bull calves the workers of the fields, her manure fertilizer, fuel and building materials for houses. Like the Sacred White Buffalo of the Aboriginal Peoples, the Egyptian Goddess, Hathor, was there before the beginning of the world. The dream tells me that I am nourished from the Milky Way, the life-giving Cow on my way through death, birth and rebirth. Further, it may remind me that rumination, regurgitation of ideas, digesting leisurely, are important aspects of being. The cow dates back to the Rig Veda, one of the earliest Indian scriptures. There, to some extent, the cow is still worshiped.

There is a good deal more in these two dreams separated only by a day and night.

Dream work. Work of a lifetime.

2 thoughts on “Question Your Own Interpretation: Birth and Rebirth, Dreams, 1989 and 2015

  1. Lucille Mandin says:

    Inspiring! I am touched and moved by your ability to deepen distinctions in your dreams. The way you interpret dreams to better understand your life is truly a gift to everyone who is in contact with you. Your gardens as Earth Church! Wow!

    Thank you generously sharing your insights!

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